Make Me Stay S1 EP1: Tears that led a guy to love

An emotional moment unfolded on Joy Prime’s dating reality show, Make Me Stay, as male contestant Bumba Ibrahim shed tears during his search for love.

Their first 60-second conversation became dramatic when female contestant Grace, also known as Maame Serwaa, challenged Bumba to make her experience love for the first time. Although she admitted that she had never been in love, she expressed her desire to build a genuine connection with him.

Grace made it clear that she was ready to explore a romantic connection, telling Bumba, “I've never fallen in love before. I want you to make me fall in love. Make me fall in love,” she told Bumba Ibrahim, who confidently responded, “Yeah, I will.”

The conversation soon turned to their sexual experiences, with both contestants admitting that they were not virgins. When asked about his views on marriage, Bumba disclosed that polygamy was acceptable in his family, provided a man could adequately cater for his wives.

However, he indicated that he would prefer to have only one wife if he found the kind of woman he desired. Grace appeared open to the possibility, but made it clear that his ability to make her stay would be important to her decision.

“That's if you can make me stay,” she added.

But the conversation took a romantic and emotional turn when the two returned from the Lovers’ Lounge, having decided to give their connection a chance.

Bumba revealed that his time away from the other contestants had given him a different perspective on love and single motherhood, particularly after spending time with Grace, the woman he was interested in.

He expressed gratitude for the opportunity to be part of the programme, describing his experience as a “one touch” because, despite having several ladies to choose from, he had already made up his mind about the woman he wanted to be with. However, he admitted that getting to know her better during their lunch date changed some of his perceptions.

According to him, the experience taught him that being a single mother does not make a woman any less worthy of love. He also suggested that women should not always be blamed when relationships fail, noting that his time with her had helped him see things differently.

“I got to learn that being a single mum doesn't make the lady a bad person,” he said.

He further expressed sympathy for her past relationship, insisting that she was not the one who lost out. He then made a promise to treat her better than her previous partner had, saying, “The guy lost; she did not lose. And I want to make sure I do what the guy could not do for you.

His emotional confession ended with an expression of affection, as he told her, “I love you,” leaving the moment filled with emotion.

Grace also could not hide her feelings, as she confessed her love for Bumba after their heartfelt and insightful conversation in the lounge.

“When I came, I also met a lot of guys here but meeting him is one of the best thing. We’ve talked and discussed a lot and have decided to move on. I think with him, everything will go on successfully,” she said.

The two eventually found a connection and chose to explore their relationship beyond the show, making them the first to find love as the season has commenced.

Other contestants also had the opportunity to make their first impressions within 60 seconds and win over potential partners, but unfortunately, not all were successful.

The emotional display added a dramatic twist to the show, which brings together individuals seeking meaningful romantic connections and gives them an opportunity to explore relationships.

Make Me Stay continues to offer viewers a blend of romance, emotions, entertainment and unexpected moments as contestants navigate the complexities of dating and relationships.

The show airs on Joy Prime every Sunday at 8pm, bringing love seekers together in the hope of finding meaningful and lasting connections.